Be Mental!

Pastor Jim Kilby • September 6, 2024

A lot of Christians I meet have a misconception about the way God's Spirit works in believers. They believe that somehow they've missed the Holy Spirit because they still think bad thoughts, and wind up doing things they shouldn't be doing. Then they feel unworthy, and move away from their faith little by little. The truth is that we are ALL unworthy, no matter how "good" we are. It's also true that walking closely with the Lord is a choice, not some type of magic! If your mind is still up to no good, then it's because you let it run wild. A close walk with the Lord begins with training your mind; focusing on what is good instead of what is evil (like prayer, the Bible, etc). Also, instead of saying to yourself, "stop thinking this or that," just begin meditating on something positive (like a favorite Scripture, or walking and talking with Jesus). You'll find that once you've got your head under control, your body will follow! 

 

 Here's a three step process I got from a good friend of mine. 1. Be Mental (get your thoughts under control). 2. Be Intentional (it's not magic... you've got to focus on the positive). 3. Be Habitual (Get into the Word, and do it all the time!).

 

 "Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires." Romans 8:5

 

 1. Be Mental

 2. Be Intentional

 3. Be Habitual


Pastor Jim Kilby


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