Rules, Rules, Rules

Pastor Jim Kilby • September 1, 2023

People don't seem to care for rules anymore. Generally, I'd say we prefer "guidelines" or "suggestions" to "commandments," "rules," or "laws" any day. I wonder, though, is there a "guideline" about not opening the door on a jetliner in flight or is it a law? If I'm on the flight, I don't care what they call it, the person next to me had better not try to open it! Rules, whether or not we like them, are most often put in place to keep us from getting hurt or from hurting each other. For example, we have several rules in our home. We don't make rules because we hate our children. Just the opposite, we make them because we love them and want to protect them. One of the best rules was a simple one about not leaving the lid up on any of the toilets in our home. When Andrew was about a year old, he loved to play in them. Not only did one of my then young daughters forget that rule, she also forgot the one about always flushing the toilet! To our great dismay, it only took a few seconds for our beautiful and wonderful smelling baby to become covered in poop! And I do mean "covered!" Rules, guidelines, commandments, no matter what you call them, our sin nature will often urge us to break them. If for no other reason, then maybe just because they're there! Be careful though... just as parents lay down rules in the home to protect their children, caring governments do the same to protect their people, and our Lord does to protect us from ourselves. Often, "Thou shalt not," can be read as "Don't forget, I love you!"

 

"Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight." Psalm 119:35     




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