Sex Before Marriage?

Pastor Jim Kilby • April 10, 2023

I get a lot of interesting questions from young people. Occasionally, I'll get one that will stump me pretty hard, too! Being that teenagers (my largest audience) are becoming more aware of their sexuality, I get a lot of questions about sex and the Christian life. You might be surprised to hear this, but many young people are radically misinformed on the subject. Today, I'd like to clear up my top three most frequent questions about sex. Feel free to write me back if you've got any other thoughts/questions about this riveting topic. You can be sure I'll respond to you personally, and privately.

 

Q. Is sex before marriage OK with God?

 

A. No, sex before marriage is NOT OK with God in any circumstances.

 

Q. Is oral sex really sex?

 

A. Yes, oral sex is still sex... You may "technically" be a virgin, but God is more concerned about damage to your heart, your relationship with Him, and your future relationships.

 

Q. Is homosexuality a sin?

 

A. Yes, the Bible clearly states that homosexuality is a sin. And, like any other sin, it separates a person from God. Still, God does not condone acts of hate or hostility against a homosexual. Hate the sin if you like, but don't hate the sinner. You've got sin in your life, too!

 

"My son, keep my words." Proverbs 7:1a


 

Pastor Jim Kilby

 

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