Walking Together?
Elizabeth Kilby • April 3, 2025
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.
Proverbs 17:17
Friends,
This week, I had the joy of taking my oldest daughter to the BMV to get her temporary driving permit. As we walked in, I told her she was in charge—she had to tell the clerk what she needed, answer their questions, and handle the process herself.
She looked at me in (joking) panic and blurted out, “What if I forget my name?”
I assured her I wasn’t going anywhere, and if needed, I’d be right there to remind her. She did great, and now… well, be a little extra cautious on the roads!
This moment, while hilarious, reminded me of something deeper. My daughter had confidence because she knew I was there with her. She wasn’t alone. But what about the people who don’t have that?
I recently spoke with a woman who shared how she’s been abandoned—estranged from family, let down by friends, and dismissed by people who once cared. She feels unseen, unheard, and forgotten.
Walking with someone through life isn’t always easy. It’s often messy, uncomfortable, and even inconvenient. But that’s what makes it matter. People don’t just need someone when life is good—they need someone who will stay when things get hard, when mistakes are made, and when the road feels impossible. Who in your life needs to be reminded they’re not alone? Maybe send them a quick text. And remember, we’re here to walk with you too!
Some More Sticky Notes:
Mr. W - Needed electric bill paid to keep lights on for himself and his two teen children.
Miss J - Local 16 year old who requested we send her a Bible!
Ms. C - Emailed asking for prayer while she was in the hospital!
Blessings,
Elizabeth Kilby
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