It's Like A Prom Dress!
Pastor Jim Kilby • July 3, 2023
I was chatting with a young friend the other day who was a bit confused about God's desire for her to remain sexually pure. She felt that such a command was a little out of date, especially considering that most of her friends were sexually active, and because of some advice she'd recently received from a friend's mother. The mom had sat them down and talked about the "birds and the bees," explaining that men were a lot like a prom dresses! "Like a prom dresses?" I asked. She explained that the well meaning mom didn't want them to be stuck with the first guy they fell in love with. "What if you got the dress home and found out it didn't fit right, or it didn't look good on you?" she exclaimed! "You'd be stuck with it! You've got to try on as many as you can and only buy the one that's just perfect for you!" I was speechless... but thank God, only for a moment. I explained that "trying on" as many guys as possible would do more damage to her heart than she could ever imagine, not to mention that she could get a disease that could kill her! God loves us more than we could ever imagine. Why do we continuously walk by "sight" and not by "faith," thinking that we know better than He? Hopefully God's Word will penetrate this young woman's heart before she makes any foolish mistakes. The advice giving mom? I think God will have a special little talk with her one day as well.
"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body." 1 Corinthians 6:18-20
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