Jerks R Us

Pastor Jim Kilby • March 29, 2023

No matter how hard I try, I can get a little gruff with people occasionally. It will generally happen when I'm tired, or when I'm feeling attacked. I guess it's in my nature to defend myself (or my family, or my ministry, etc.), without taking time to stop, trust in the Lord, and then respond more appropriately. This is one of the many areas where God has clearly let me know that I'm far from perfect. He's been quite clear in urging me to get a firmer hold on my attitude. Of course, the only way I have any hope at all is by drawing close to Him and by praying for a more powerful presence of the Holy Spirit in my life.  What bothers me the most though, is that I've found that it's much easier for me to be gentle with people that treat me kindly than with those who don't. While that may be true for everyone, the standard God sets is much higher. Although I may never attain anything close to the standard, I'd still like to try.

 

"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them." Luke 6:32

 

Pastor Jim Kilby

 

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