There's a grand misconception about "love" prevailing in the world today. Many people believe that more love is the answer to basically every human problem. I meet young women who believe the way to straighten out a wayward boyfriend or husband is just to "love him more." Similarly, I've met way too many parents who believe that little Johnny or little Jodie will turn from their wicked ways if they just "give them more love." While this premise sounds great on the surface, let's analyze it for a moment. Truly love is an amazing thing, but I wonder... was God withholding any love from us when we chose to sin and turn away from Him? Even now he doesn't withhold any good thing from those He loves, but we continue in sin just the same! The grand misconception is based on a lack of knowledge of the vastness of love. Love is not a warm feeling or the shiver that runs up your back when you see someone you really care about. Love is an action! Because it is an action, love requires both commitment and sacrifice. Imagine a God who said, "I love you," but then refused to sacrifice for those He loved. Love also requires both discipline and boundaries. God gives us both, and we owe both to those we love. Imagine the same wayward boyfriend or girlfriend who, instead of getting his/her way at every whim, now is confronted with healthy boundaries. Now imagine the Little Jodie or Johnny being loved enough to be disciplined. Anyone facing boundaries or discipline for the first time may dislike you for a while, but they'll LOVE you even more once they grow to understand the depth of your love.
"He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him." Proverbs 13:24
Pastor Jim Kilby
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