Out of the Muck!

Elizabeth Kilby • April 4, 2023

I waited patiently for the Lord;
     he turned to me and heard my cry.
He lifted me out of the slimy pit,
     out of the mud and mire;
he set my feet on a rock
     and gave me a firm place to stand.
He put a new song in my mouth,
     a hymn of praise to our God.
Many will see and fear the Lord
     and put their trust in him. (Psalm 40:1-3, NIV)

Friends,


One of my boys asked me the other day why God created us if He knew we were going to sin. I thought for a moment and told him it was similar to why his dad and I decided to have kids – we knew they were going to sin but we also knew we would love them and were worth it. I took it one step further to make sure he understood and explained when we brought home Lily, our dog, we knew she was going to tear things up, make a mess, and generally be more work. But we also knew she would bring us great joy and we would love her anyway. This example seemed to hit home the most for him. No, he doesn’t enjoy cleaning up the dog’s messes…but he does love the dog anyway!

 

I love knowing God knew we were going to mess up. He knew and He created us anyway. He knew and He died for us anyway. He knew and He didn’t turn away. Anyone who is human is going to mess up. It happens. Maybe we would do well to remember Christ’s example and choose to lean in, to sacrifice a little, to reach into the muck and pull people out. Some of my absolute favorite conversations have been when people are finally willing to be honest and then are absolutely amazed we didn’t run away, or even look completely shocked and appalled. If I am a dearly loved child of God, and I believe you are too, I need to be sure to act like it!

 

I’m thankful for my son’s thoughtful questions and grateful for the opportunity to remind him of God’s outrageous love!

 

In Christ,

Elizabeth Kilby

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