Friends,
“TWO DAYS?”, my son cried out in disbelief. Yes, in fact, it would take his Amazon Prime purchase two whole days to get here. And he wasn’t very impressed when I told him about mail when I was his age and how everything took a whole lot longer. Of course, he asked me every moment of the final day if there were any updates as to what time it would be delivered, because “by 10pm” was not going to cut it for him.
I am noticing a trend in my kids and in the world around us: we don’t like to wait. Even worse, we often don’t like to work hard for the things we want to obtain. One of my other sons really wants to buy a new Lego set. He is constantly asking for jobs for money, but the reality is, he doesn’t really want to do the work involved to earn the money. It’s going to be awhile before his Lego dream becomes a reality.
I see this with people we work with fairly frequently too. I often ask for fairly simple “steps” to be done to make sure we are faithfully spending funds in ways that honor the people we are serving and the people who have generously donated to make it possible. Even those small steps are met with indignation sometimes – you want me to what? Take a picture of the bill? Fill out the form? Find a time to meet you? Small steps to let me know how serious the request is – and how willing the person is to make any effort to have the need met.
A wise man who had worked in ministries for a very long time, told me once to make sure to require something of people who are receiving. Even something simple. The work, the effort, gives dignity to the request and often, it means about half the people walk away, unwilling to put in any effort at all.
In Christ,
Elizabeth Kilby
Harvest Youth Ministries (HYM) is an outreach aimed at young people; not a youth group. HYM is an IRS approved 501(c)(3) not-for-profit ministry. All donations are tax deductible as allowed by law.
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